How To Deal With Someone Who Hurts You Tarot Card Spread
We have all dealt with people in our lives who are toxic or seem to cause us a lot of pain. This spread is designed to help you to understand the situation and to provide guidance about the best way to move forward.
1. WHY ARE THEY TREATING ME THIS WAY? - Do they feel that you have wronged them in some way, is it something from their past that causes them to treat you this way or do they simply have a toxic or narcissitic attitude? Think about these things as you interpret this card.
2. WHAT ARE THEY TRYING TO TELL ME? - This insight could be an interesting one that gives you an insight into what's really going on. People don't always say what they mean.
3. WHY DO THEIR ACTIONS HURT ME SO MUCH? - Are their actions triggering something from your past, do their actions affect you badly because this person is someone you care about? There are many other reasons that could be the cause of your hurt and an insight into what these reasons here can help you understand your own pain. This can help you to figure out how to best move forward.
4.IS THIS RELATIONSHIP WORTH SAVING - Should you make an effort or is the best course of action to simply cut this person out of your life?
5. HOW CAN I BEST MOVE FORWARD - How can you over come the hurt that has been caused to you by this persons actions and how can you move forward from this in general?
EXAMPLE READING
DRAW - 1-10 of Water, 2-King of Fire, 3-Moon, 4-9 of Earth, 5-Tower.
This person is much more concerned with their own well being and celebrating their own achievements then they are with how they affect others. They feel happy with where they are at and have made a concerted effort to get there. They don't feel as if they have treated you badly and in fact feel peaceful and serene, taking pleasure in all that they feel they have accomplished. Your feelings were never on their radar, they simply act in ways that they feel will benefit them the most.
This person is trying to tell you that they believe they are more poweful than you are and that they believe they are someone who should teach you and lead you so that you become more like them.
You are often deeply hurt by this person because your view of them is based on your illusions not on reality. Your denial of the truth means that you do not see who they really are so it is a shock when they do things that hurt you.
It is important that you focus on becoming more self reliant so that you can build security for yourself and not rely on this person or others. You have the tools and the ability to do this and may have begun doing this a long time ago. Focus on a plan and work towards building your own strong foundation, trusting that it is for the best and will work out.
Things will happen very quickly for you and there may be a sudden upheaval in your life as you move forward. This will make way for better things. Remain in the present and keep your eyes open wide so that you are not misled by illusions once again. Unexpected events will bring a potive transformation for you as well as some surprising and interesting opportunities.
This reading was completed using The Good Tarot deck by Collette Baron-Reid. I recommend this deck for beginners and/or expert readers. A beautiful, positive guidance deck with earthy, magical illustrations that are sure to inspire. An easy to follow guidebook is included which is extremely helpful for beginners.
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